Betty Charlie <BCharlie>

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What are your dreams are trying to tell you?

Hello all. My name is Betty I am 41 years old, disabled and a Christian. I have 3 wonderful children, Mellonie, Peter and Lucien. I am now single but am not looking. I would just like to make friends and have fun. I love the outdoors walking through the park listening to nature is the most relaxing thing for me. I also love spending time with my kids they are my life.

I would also like to say that I have made some really stupid mistakes in the past that may have hurt a lot of people. I now realize those mistakes and now i just hope and pray that those who have been hurt can find it in their hearts to PLEASE FORGIVE ME!!!!!!!

Betty Charlie says:

"my doc moved new doc is messing with my meds am having problems with my fibro again." (1 day ago) me too!

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Lightening, the dark and being alone.

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I am the happiest when I am spending time with my family, and spending time outdoors.

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Quesnel i owe alot to this town.

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I know i have not explained myself to all of u who are my family in one way or another. so i will do that now. u see with my Grandma and Robert passing away a part of me died along with them i was lost and confused and then my Mother hurting my girl Mellonie the way she did i just had to leave and find that part of me that died. i could not do that down there not with my Mother and different other ppl interfering instead of helping me. i was dieing myself u see after i came up here i had a major operation cause i had that tumor come back and my appendix was leaking and the poison was killing me. the docs down their couldn't find it. and the kids being in foster care is the best thing that i could have done for them. Peter and Mellonei both made the honor roll in their school this year and while they were staying with me i could not help them do that with the way my health was as i was on 2 canes and almost in a wheelchair. i could have stayed down there but think of this if i did Lucien would have no mother or father and the other 2 would have no mother. after my Grandma and Robert died i wanted to kill myself and probably would have if i didn't get some one to take me away from there. things happen for a reason and my move up here happened co that i could still be alive today. and if u don't understand that and still don't want to forgive me i am sorry but that is the way it is and i am not feeling guilty about it any more. i do know that God is the one i hae to answer to in the end and i already asked him to forgive me and to help me change which he is doing if u would give me a chance to prove it. Love always Betty
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here is the story.
i would like to tell u how i came to the lord. it was in 2005. I had been through allot in life since i was a little girl. my mother used to abuse me allot she even tried to kill me when i told her my grandfather had done some not nice things to me. when i was 19 i figured my only way out of her grasp was to get married to the first man that showed me interest. he turned out to be abusive we had 3 children one of which we lost to crib death. i had accepted the abuse but when he started to abuse the kids i figured it was best to get a divorce. i then met my second husband he was the most wonderful man i had ever met. he loved me and my kids like they were his own. we also had a child together but in the year 2000 he was slowly dying and was very easily irritated by the kids so we both decided it was best for me and the kids to move off the reserve which he was a member of. we decided that was best cause we didn't want him to die with the kids having hard feelings from the anger he would show at times. then in the summer of 2001 my grandmother died of cancer that tore me up cause her and i were so close but i was getting to accepting it when 3 days after Christmas that same year my husband died of diabetes. that put me over the edge into depression and my 3 kids had to go into foster care till i was stable again. i have always had allot of pain in my body as i was born fibromyalgia which had gotten sever, and it seemed that the depression had made the pain even more sever it also had me so down that i didn't even know who i really was any more, then i moved from Abbotsford with the kids and went up north when my pain got even worse as i tried so hard to do everything on my own as a single mom. i was on 2 canes and unable to do much for myself. my pain got so bad i asked the government for help to take care of the kids and help me with house work things like that, but they decided the only way to help me was to take the kids away from me. big mistake as i thought at that point that my kids were the only things i had left in life, but even worse they were thinking of giving the kids to ppl that would not let me see them as they lived out of town. well i was getting so depressed that a couple of weeks before Christmas 2005 a good friend asked me to go for dinner at a church that was close to my apartment. i did go with her but she didn't know that when i got home that night i had planned to take all my pills such as muscle relaxers and things like that because i didn't want the pain in my heart any more i just wanted it to end. as i was leaving the church the minister asked if i was going to come for services the next day. i said that it depended on my health that was always my excuse for everything. when i got home i heard a song in it was a verse that said " Jesus take the wheel" i started to cry and cried out Jesus take the wheel of my life cause i can't take it any more i can't do it on my own. all of a sudden the urge to take those pills was on the back burner and has never come to mind again as i decided to go to the service the next day after all. i know it was god who steered me that way cause that day the service was all about what i was going through the pain, depression and wanting to die. that day i went up and asked the lord into my life and i tell u my life has made one big turn around i am no longer on my canes and my depression and anxiety is easier to deal with, i still have alot of pain and the depression and anxiety still tries to hit me but i know the lord helps me through it. cause i know if it didn't when this that i had married on august 6th of last 2006 husband left me cause i caught him selling pot and gave him a choice of me or that, and he couldn't handle my disability. i would have got depressed again but i didn't i have accepted it and am going on with my life. i also love my life and myself more than i ever have in my entire life.
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